Perfectionism in females who had a difficult relationship with their mothers

Perfectionism is a common personality trait that many people, particularly women, struggle with. It is a trait that is often associated with high levels of achievement and success, but it can also be a double-edged sword. People who are perfectionists are often their own worst critics, and they can be incredibly hard on themselves when they don't meet their own high standards. This can lead to a range of mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, and even eating disorders.

One group of people who are particularly susceptible to perfectionism are women who had a difficult relationship with their mothers. This is because the relationship between a mother and daughter is one of the most important relationships in a woman's life, and a difficult relationship with one's mother can have long-lasting effects on a woman's self-esteem and self-worth.

^{_{Online Therapy – How Effective Is It, Really?}}

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A qualitative study of the use of Skype for psychotherapy consultations in the Ukraine

There has been rather limited use of Skype for health and medical purposes. We investigated the use of Skype for delivering psychotherapy services in the Ukraine. A provider questionnaire was distributed to all delegates (n = 50) at the Annual Symposium of Psychotherapists. 

The majority of clients and providers showed high satisfaction with the use of Skype for psychotherapy services.

Abstract from:
EDIRIPPULIGE, S., LEVANDOVSKAYA, M. & PRISHUTOVA, A. 2013. A qualitative study of the use of Skype for psychotherapy consultations in the Ukraine. J Telemed Telecare, 19, 376-8.

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