Kas kelia santykių problemas? |
Kas kelia santykių problemas?
Visi norime rasti gerą partnerį ir dalintis su juo savo gyvenimu. Kai įsimylime ir įsipareigojame santykiams, tikime, kad jie tęsis visą mūsų gyvenimą, tikime, kad kartu kursime ir sieksime savo svajonių. Tačiau, deja, kiekviena pora santykiuose patiria sunkumų. Poros susiduria su išbandymais, dažniausiai juos įveikia ir juda toliau. Bet kartais sunkumuose partneriai pasijunta vieniši, palikti ir negalintys išsręsti problemų, kad ir kaip stengtųsi. Kyla tie patys piktumai, tų pačių frustracijų lydimos pasekmės, ir abu partneriai jaučiasi užstrigę. Bėgant laikui, vienas ar abu pradeda galvoti apie skyrybas. Gaila, bet skyrybų statistika yra aukšta, nors dauguma sunkumų, kurie jas paskatina, gali būti išpręsti, pasitelkus tinkamą pagabą.
Yra eilė modelių ir situacijų, kurios gali atsirasti ir kelti santykiuose sunkumus. Plačiau...
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ONLINE COUNSELLING: BEYOND THE PROS & CONS |
ONLINE COUNSELLING: BEYOND THE PROS & CONS
by Cedric Speyer & Jason Zack
Tai straipsnis apie konsultavimą internetu, kur autoriai išvadas pradeda:
"Telepresence" is "the illusion that a mediated experience is not mediated" (Lombard & Ditton, 1997), the feeling of being in someone’s presence without sharing a physical space. When online counseling is at its best, and the positive conditions are in place, clients and therapists experience telepresence and are not only able to interact effectively, but engage in relationships that can offer something special indeed. Believe it or not, experiencing the online other as a genuine, caring person is not as difficult as it might seem.
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Choosing the right therapist. Look for understanding, not hype |
Choosing the Right Therapist. Look for understanding, not hype
by Jonathan Shedler PhD, 2013
So how do you choose a therapist? You steer clear of ideologues and experts-at-everything. You don’t search far and wide for a therapist who specializes in people with exactly your problem because there are no other people with exactly your problem. When you meet, notice whether the therapist seems more interested in you or your diagnosis. Notice whether the therapist invites you to think together about what is really the matter. Notice whether the two of you are able to develop a shared understanding of what is the matter that rings true to you, that was not already evident to you. The last part may take a few meetings but the trajectory should be moving in that direction from the beginning. If all of these ingredients are there, you’ve probably found a good one.
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Computer-Mediated Counseling |
Research article
Computer-Mediated Counseling
An Empirical Study of a New Mental Health Treatment
by Gary E. Cohen MC & Barbara A. Kerr PhD
Although several mental health professionals now offer counseling via the Internet, little empirical research exists on how this mode of delivery impacts clients. The current study compares the effects of computer-mediated counseling and traditional face-to-face counseling on anxiety and attitudes toward counseling. While clients demonstrated a significant decrease in anxiety following each mode of delivery, their anxiety was not significantly impacted by the mode of delivery they received. In addition, participants' ratings of counselors on expertness, attractiveness, and trustworthiness were not affected by mode of delivery. These findings warrant further exploration of how computer-mediated counseling might be effectively used as an alternative or an adjunct to face-to-face counseling.
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Choosing an Online Therapist: A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Professional Help on the Web |
Choosing an Online Therapist: A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Professional Help on the Web
by Gary S. Stofle
In an easy-to-read and concise format, the author walks consumers through the steps to decide if online therapy is a good choice for them, and if so, what to look for in an online therapist. His easy-to-use charts will help readers organize their research and be on their way to a successful online therapy experience in no time!
Read this book to find out:
• what online therapy is all about
• when this mode of therapy is appropriate and when it’s not
• credentials and characteristics that consumers should look for when choosing an online therapist
• what to expect when online therapy begins
• how to end therapy when the time is right
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